Winning!! Duh. Isn’t that the name of the game? Winning? Do you know of any athletes that bleed and toil and rise at dawn for practice every day for decades that really don’t […]
You don’t know the meaning of the word.
I spent my Saturday at a three year old’s birthday party with my babies. We had to drive almost 2 hours each way to get there, but it was for my good friend’s daughter. […]
HomeWrecker: One FaceBook Tantrum to Rule Them All (pt. 2 of 5)
One FaceBook Tantrum to Rule Them All… Once HomeWrecker had her little one sided conversation about me/to me/to herself on FaceBook to call me out, I decided to delve […]
Selective Victimization and You!
Selective Victimization: This occurs when an aggressor selectively chooses what part of the narrative to display to the world in order to appear the victim, while omitting the critically important part of […]
Director’s Cut: Drop the Mic, I’m OUT
Tonight was an out and out train-wreck. I found myself in the familiar position of being curled up on the edge of my bed, listening to the baby monitor, irrationally hoping to hear […]
Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.
I’ve known for some time that I should see a counselor. I’m not equipped to handle the ‘skein of fuckedupedness’ that I unwittingly attempt to untangle every day (shout out to the AMAZING Chump […]
The HomeWrecker Games.
The HomeWrecker Games And so it goes, my classy home-wrecking friend, I’m here, late at night, checking out Facebook again. I hope you’ve been practicing for ‘HomeWrecker of the Year’… They don’t […]
good luck exploring the infinite abyss.
There is unspeakable cruelty in the actions of narcissists who betray and bail without warning. It’s tough to expect others who think they have an idea of what you’re going through to […]
Why oh why did I take the red pill?
Things I knew on February 21st, 2014… I loved my husband with all my heart, flaws and all. I was loyal to my husband every day for 14 years. I never once […]
Are we plan A? Or plan B?
Yesterday, Baby Girl turned 2. A year ago yesterday, my husband came home from being away from home for 5 months. He’d been on the road working out of state on an overtime […]