I’m alone. No one understands. I need to escape this. – The triple lie. This lie lives inside of me. Sometimes it shouts, other times it whispers. But it’s always there. And […]
Twu Wuv Vows? — ChumpLady.com
Dear Chump Lady, Six years ago I went full out marriage CSI detective and uncovered a long term, on and off affair my then-wife had been having. It was a sprawling, traumatic […]
I pooped a bank account.
Doesn’t it seem as though cheaters can’t face the music, even when the reality of what they’ve done is staring them in the face? They provide a reality substitute (reality lite, now […]
Hey man, that’s my burrito.
To expound on the whole ‘if cheaters tried to use their excuses in other parts of life’ dialogue, let’s focus our discussion today on bodily urges. The human body comes with all […]
Not guilty by reason of awesomeness.
Can any among you imagine living in a world where the asinine justifications used by adulterers were similarly used to defend other high crimes and misdemeanors? Let’s take a look-see at at […]
Flip the script on your boggart
Are there any among you familiar with a boggart? A boggart is a shapeshifter that takes the shape of that which is most feared by the person who encounters it. When not in the […]
Rage fuel: it’s your friend.
Greetings, Dear Readers! Why Is Everything Capitalized Right Here? No Idea. I want to tell you a little story on this fine Wednesday morning that, were it to reach only one reader, […]
The kids will understand what happened…in time.
I told Honey no to any revisions to child support when he ‘reached out’ to me last year. You can read about it here. I included HomeWrecker in the email discussion because […]
Divorce Surprise Party!
My awesome hubs decided he’d throw me a surprise party for being such a kick-ass wife and mother to his babies. Except at this party, instead of punch and cake, there was […]
With all due respect…
You know when someone says ‘with all due respect’…and then they follow it up with a comment that leaves you wondering how on earth that could ever be considered ‘respect’? On that […]